Some escorts we have spoken to would say a good 80% of them had wives at home.
Some were bored with their sex life, some wouldn’t know how to ask their wife for what they were into, some had wives that wouldn’t have sex with them and some of them were very happily married, having regular sex
Using an escort can be a thrilling experience. You can pretty much have your pick of the girls and you could have sex with a girl that in reality, you may not have had the opportunity to. It’s living the dream and the fantasy.
It’s also easy for this thrill to become an addiction, so what happens if you do become addicted to having sex with an escort whilst you are in a relationship?
With an escort, you will find no judgement, it’s quick and easy and you may even find that they are able to offer you some gentle therapy and counselling.
You throw in the fact that you are pretty much guaranteed an orgasm, including sex that is primarily about your pleasure and whatever turns you on, using escorts can more often then not be an amazing situation and that’s why men keep coming back.
As with any addiction, whether it be to sex, gambling, drugs etc, you can’t just go cold turkey.
Well, you can, but it usually ends badly. You need to wean yourself off what your addiction is and find out the reasons behind it.
Try and keep a small log of when you find yourself having the compulsion to visit an escort.
This doesn’t have to include any incriminating words, it could be as simple as a piece of paper or a note in your phone with some form of code that you understand.
See what your triggers are. Do you want to use the services of an escort when you have lots of money in your pocket? Ok that’s a trigger.
When you are having a stressful day at work? Ok that’s another trigger.
When it’s a Wednesday as you always see that same girl at the same time on a Wednesday? Also a trigger!
Find out when you are most likely to get that urge and record it somewhere private.
Find out what is happening in your life and when and you can find a way to work around that.
If you using an escort once a week, how about try and go just once every 2 weeks.
If you seeing an escort when you’ve had a bad day at work, how about you reward yourself with another type of treat that doesn’t involve sex, maybe going to see a movie or having a drink after work.
Slowly replace your trigger points with additional activities and gradually fade out your use of sex workers.
If you think you are struggling with an addiction to sex, speak to a doctor or therapist.
Sex additions is very common and it is nothing to be ashamed of what so ever.