Some of us love bondage, and a question escorts get asked a lot is “can I tie you up before we have sex?” or indeed “can you tie me up then have sex?”.
Some escorts do indeed allow this, in fact they very much enjoy it, it all depends on their personal preference and what sexual services they offer.
Like we always say it’s always worth reading a girl’s description on their website, or better yet giving them/their agency a call to find out if specific girls will allow it.
They can then provide you find you a perfect, submissive girls who will allow you to tie them up before or during sex.
Do keep in mind that some escorts do not offer this service, certainly first time, mainly for safety and security reasons and also more often then now as they do not enjoy it. If they do offer it and you become a regular client, and all parties feel safe and comfortable, then go for it!
If you hired an escort without confirming that they offer this BDSM service and request that you tie them up or that you want to be tied up they would probably leave immediately and not see you again.
If you do want an escort to do BDSM with, you’ll have to look for an escort or agency who specialises in that, and as mentioned it may take some relationship building for the escort to feel safe with you.
Once this level of trust and comfort has been built up and all concerned feel that the time is right, then you can indulge your desires, it may be the case that you both have to meet at least 2 or 3 times and have “regular” sex, before introducing the ropes and restraints, but of course if neither of you do feel comfortable this still may not happen, however you may still wish to keep using the services of that particular escort as the sex is great, while you search for another escort to try again with, like with anything sexual, never ever force the issue. Not only will the escort leave and ban you, but if you come on too strong then the local authorities will more the likely get involced.